Sometimes, when you hold onto a person, place, or thing, it can hold you back from reaching your potential. Mind you, I am writing this at 4:27 am on October 22nd.
It is better to think logically instead of letting emotions guide you. Logically, when you feel that something, a scenario, or someone is bad for you, you should walk away, no matter how tough it may be.
I began to let go and reinvest my time into myself. This includes learning new skills, taking care of my nails and hair, exercising, focusing on my health, and spending time with family and friends. If something is not meant to be, don’t force it. Only focus on what you can control and become a better version of yourself. You attract what you are, and when you start improving yourself and building daily habits, you emit a higher level of frequency that will attract success, money, and even relationships. Once you establish yourself, you will understand your triggers, how you best communicate, and how to be in tune with yourself. This means you will be secure with yourself, and that’s when you’ve reached self-awareness. Sometimes, you have to go through pain and suffering in order to find fulfillment. In my personal life, I let go of everyone I used to talk to. By reevaluating my life, I realized that these people wouldn’t have any drastic effect on my life. The only person in control of my life is myself. I knew it would be a painful and lonely process, but I know in the end, it’ll be worth it. I trust the process and let everything flow. It is what it is, and I focus on things I can control. I continue to work hard, do good deeds, and improve myself by 1% each day. My mentality is that if I don’t end up with anyone, I’ll end up with a better version of myself.
Remind yourself that you’re meant to be successful. Those who are meant to stay with you will simply do so. Take everything day by day, but always have a plan to execute your goals.
I’ve watched too many people around me cry, and the best way to understand this is to redirect energy. This pain can be used as motivation. Everything is truly a matter of perception. Even when you don’t feel like it, keep your head up and push forward. When you feel lost, identify your weaknesses and research ways to overcome them and improve yourself. Trust me, you’ll become such an optimal version of yourself that people will be attracted to you.
Focus on money, hygiene, fitness, self-awareness, and continuous learning.
It’s hard not to want someone who excels in all the areas I listed above. Options and opportunities will fall right into your lap. Pain is inevitable, but without it, we wouldn’t grow.
The last thing you want to be is insecure.
Begin to distinguish those that would only be around when you’re successful, or those that supported you at your lowest. Would they enamored with you if you were not you?
Regardless of the circumstances, I will always end up where I want to be. Set up goals. Set small increments to cut people off if they don’t serve you a purpose. You’ll begin to realize that life will piece together, once you choose yourself. The right people will resonate with your life and goals. It’s going to hurt, I promise but sometimes when events don’t occur the way you want them to. It’s a blessing for better opportunities
Journal prompt of the week:
If you had your last day to live, what would you do? How would you manifest your desires?
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